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Project SOS
Student Program
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Introduction of Program
  • Provide Information
  • Provide Materials
  • Not School Program
  • Not Telling You What to Do
  • More Information Means Better Decisions as a Parent and a Student
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Purpose of Program
  • Ease the transition for both parents and students into teen years
  • Knowing the issues in advance improves the solutions
  • No more or fewer student deaths related to lack of seat belt use or use of alcohol
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Current Issues
  • Alcohol and Drugs
  • Failure to Use Seat Belts
  • Driving Skills and Privileges
  • Dating and Curfews
  • How to Handle Issues
  • Lack of Information
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Potential Solution:
More Information
  • Safety Statistics and Issues: Maj. Phil Garrett (Mobile Police Department)
  • Insurance and Legal Liability Issues: Attorney Joe Babington
  • St. Paul’s School Policy: Palmer Kennedy
  • What Students Can Expect in the Years Ahead: St. Pauls’ Seniors: Kristel Isakson &Steven Lerner
  • Handling these Issues as Parents: Brian McCarthy and Leslie Lerner
  • Q&A: Opportunity to Ask Question



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Safety Statistics
  • Maj. Phillip Garrett
  • Mobile Police Department


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National Statistics:
16-19 Year Olds
  • 3500 Teens Die Every Year in Car Crashes
  • 10 Teens Die Every Day
  • Almost 75% of Drivers in Fatal Crashes Were Male
  • 1 Male Passenger in Age Group Almost Doubles Risk of Dying
  • 2 or More Male Passengers More Than Doubles Risk
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Death Rates Compared
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Teen Death Rate Compared
  • 16 Year Old: Almost 6 Times More Likely to Die in a Fatal Car Accident
  • 17 Year Old: 5 Times More Likely
  • 18 and 19 Year Olds: 4 Times More Likely
  • Key: More Training and Experience


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What Should Be Done?
  • Need for Good Training and Experience
    • Drivers Ed or You Certify 30 Hours
    • Schedule Drive Time in All Conditions
  • Rules, Consequences & Enforcement
    • Seat Belts
    • Alcohol
    • Reduced Alcohol Rate for Teens



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Police Enforcement
  • No Tolerance Now on Alcohol
  • Change of Enforcement Culture
  • We Will Arrest the Kids
  • We Will Arrest the Parents
    • Serving Minors
    • Open House Party
    • Liability Issues: Criminal and Civil
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Insurance and Liability Issues
  • Attorney Joe Babington


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Insurance Issues
  • Vehicle
  • Insurance Issues
  • Parent and Student Liability


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Owner of Vehicle
  • Timing
  • Title: Parent(s) or Student
    • Who pays the money?
  • Effect of Liability
  • Who Controls the Keys?
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Choice of Vehicle
  • Discuss with Parent
  • Insurance Cost = Price, Type, Size and Safety Profile
  • Best Choices for Cost and Safety:
    • Mid to Full Size
    • Good Safety Profile
    • Well-Maintained



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Cost of Vehicle
  • Used vs. New: $10,000 to $40,000 range
  • Teen Insurance for Clean Driving Record:
    • $1000-$1200 for female and $1500-$1800 for male if added vehicle on your coverage with 25% limit on use, assuming 2000 vehicle*
    • $1800 per year for Female or $2200 per year for male if principal driver*
  • Maintenance:
    • Used Car: $500 to $1,000 per year
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Insurance: Reducing Cost
  • Buy a Used Vehicle
  • Driver’s Education: Roughly 10% Reduction
  • Grades of As & Bs: 10% Reduction again
  • Insurance Programs for Teen Drivers: 10% Reduction
  • Almost 30% off Total Cost
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Insurance: The Dark Side
  • Ticket: Assume 5-10% increase
  • At Fault Accident: Assume 10% Increase
  • Multiple Tickets/Accidents
    •  Possibility to Lose Coverage Entirely
    • Lose License
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Liability Issues
  • Umbrella Policies: Cheap and Cover Everyone
  • Parental Liability Issues
    • Negligent Entrustment: After Tickets and the DUI
    • Having the Party at Your House
  • Awareness and Action: Best Defense


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Current Legal Limits
  • First 6 Months:
    • No Driving from Midnight to 6:00 a.m.
    • No More than 4 Occupants (Not including parent)
  • Some Exceptions:
    • Work, School, Church
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School Policies
  • Palmer Kennedy
  • St. Paul’s Episcopal School


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St. Paul’s School
  •      Policies, Expectations,
  • Conduct, and Discipline


  •      Palmer Kennedy: Director            Upper School




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Representation of St. Paul’s Within the Community
  • Appropriate student conduct and decorum away from campus as well as on campus
  • A student’s conduct should promote the general welfare and reputation of the School and must not reflect poorly on the School, its name or the community in general.
  • St. Paul’s reserves the right to take disciplinary action at the discretion of the administration.


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Substance Abuse Policy
  • St. Paul’s will not tolerate the possession or use of illegal drugs or the misuse, abuse, illegal possession or use of prescription drugs or other substances, including alcohol and tobacco, on or off campus or during any School sponsored activity or non-School sponsored activity.
  • Violation of this policy will result in disciplinary action as deemed appropriate by the Administration.
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Drug and Alcohol Testing
  • Mandatory or Required Testing
  • Universal Drug Testing Program
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Community and Parental Responsibilities
  • For the welfare of students and the School, and to promote and insist on a drug-free environment, the entire St. Paul’s community, including parents and guests, should not be in possession of alcohol or illegal drugs during any activity on St. Paul’s campus or at any student event, athletic or otherwise, at any other school campus.  The cooperation of parents and guests is needed to promote and send a strong message to our student body with regard to the School’s position regarding drug, alcohol, and tobacco usage.
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Disciplinary Code Section II
  • The possession, ownership, use, evidence of use, or being under the influence of illegal drugs or alcohol, possession of drug paraphernalia, or the misuse, abuse, possession or illegal use of prescribed drugs or other substances including tobacco or any type of tobacco substitute, on campus, during the school day, whether on or off campus, or while participating in any school-related activity whether on or off campus, will result in any or all of the following:
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Disciplinary Code Section II Continued
  • Expulsion
  • All of the following:
    • Suspension for a period of 1 to 8 school days
    • Probation for a period of up to 180 school days
    • Parent conference
  • Other action as deemed appropriate by the Administration



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School’s Position
  • To communicate clear expectations regarding behaviors on this campus and at school functions
  • To equip students with appropriate information to make positive choices when not under our supervision
  • To support and partner with parents to make sure that our students know what expectations exist and that accountability is important
  • To communicate that often the school may not be in concurrence with main stream, but parents and students need to understand that with regard to behavioral expectations, St. Paul’s mission is clear


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Student Perspective

  • Kristel Isakson and Steven Lerner


  • Seniors: St. Paul’s Episcopal School
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Student Point of View
  • What You Can Expect in High School
  • Dating and Curfews
  • Alcohol and Drugs
    • How the Groups Divide Up
    • 10th Grade Toughest: Transition Year
    • Important: Who Your Friends Are
  • Enforcing Consequences Affects Behavior
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How Parents Have Handled These Issues
  • Leslie Lerner and Brian McCarthy


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Key Points
  • Communication
  • Know and Respect Each Other
  • Uniformity and Consistency
  • Driving Contracts
  • Curfews
  • Alcohol and Drugs
  • Tell Me Who Your Friends Are and...
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Communication
  • If You Want Responsibility Then Communicate Effectively with Parent to Demonstrate Maturity
  • Communicate on a Regular Basis: Not just when you need money or the keys
  • Be Honest and Trustworthy
  • Appreciate What’s Going On in Your Parents’ Lives
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Driving Contracts
  • Driving/Car Ownership is a Privilege with Serious Legal Liabilities
  • Ownership Interest Affects Behavior
  • Establish Clear Rules
  • Establish Clear Consequences
  • Distractions: Cell Phones, Radio, IPod
  • Written Agreement Eliminates Arguments About the Rules & Consequences
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Curfews
  • Factors: Age, Maturity, Character & Conduct
  • Nothing Good Happens After Midnight
  • Ideas: Calling if Late, Wake Parent Up with a Kiss, Set Alarm Clock 5 Minutes after Curfew
  • Consequences
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Alcohol & Drugs
  • Driving Issues
    • Driving Under Influence
    • Alcohol in Vehicle
    • Being a Passenger with Driver Under Influence
  • Where You Are: Calling Home, Calling from Landline
  • Don’t Go Where You Know the Trouble Is
  • First and Primary Concern: Safety
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Staying Out of Trouble
  • Tell Me Where You Are Going
  • Tell Me Who Will Be There
  • Tell Me When You Will Be Home
  • If Any of That Changes Call Me Immediately
  • Don’t Do Anything You Know is Wrong or Illegal
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Moderator
  • Summary of Key Points
  • Materials Available
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Key Points
  • Open Lines of Communication
  • Get Good Training and Experience
  • Establish Clear Rules and Consequences
  • Financial Interest in Consequences Affects Behavior
  • Consequences Change Behavior
  • Driving Contracts: Useful to Set Clear Rules and Consequences



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Getting Good Results
  • Establish Trust Through Respect and Consistent Good Behavior
  • Get Agreement on the Rules and Consequences and Don’t Break Them
  • Don’t Do Anything You Know is Wrong
  • Don’t Do Anything You Know is Illegal


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Questions and Answers
  • All Speakers
  • 20 Minutes
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Q & A Format
  • Format
    • My name is.....................................
    • I have a question for.......................
    • My question is................................
  • No War Stories
  • No Names
  • No Judgment